[CodeGen] Fix issues with scalable-vector INSERT/EXTRACT_SUBVECTORs

This patch addresses a few issues when dealing with scalable-vector
INSERT_SUBVECTOR and EXTRACT_SUBVECTOR nodes.

When legalizing in DAGTypeLegalizer::SplitVecRes_INSERT_SUBVECTOR, we
store the low and high halves to the stack separately. The offset for
the high half was calculated incorrectly.

Additionally, we can optimize this process when we can detect that the
subvector is contained entirely within the low/high split vector type.
While this optimization is valid on scalable vectors, when performing
the 'high' optimization, the subvector must also be a scalable vector.
Note that the 'low' optimization is still conservative: it may be
possible to insert v2i32 into the low half of a split nxv1i32/nxv1i32,
but we can't guarantee it. It is always possible to insert v2i32 into
nxv2i32 or v2i32 into nxv4i32+2 as we know vscale is at least 1.

Lastly, in SelectionDAG::isSplatValue, we early-exit on the extracted subvector value
type being a scalable vector, forgetting that we can also extract a
fixed-length vector from a scalable one.

Reviewed By: craig.topper

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D98495