[libc++] Give extern templates default visibility on gcc

Contrary to the current visibility macro documentation, it appears that
gcc does handle visibility attribute on extern templates correctly, e.g.
https://godbolt.org/g/EejuV7. We need this so that extern template
instantiations of classes not marked _LIBCPP_TEMPLATE_VIS (e.g.
__vector_base_common) are correctly exported with gcc when building with
hidden visibility.

Reviewed By: ldionne

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D35388