[DAG] make binops with undef operands consistent with IR

This started by noticing that scalar and vector types were producing different results with div ops in PR36305:
https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=36305

...but the problem is bigger. I couldn't keep it straight without a table, so I'm attaching that as a PDF to 
the review. The x86 tests in undef-ops.ll correspond to that table.

Green means that instsimplify and the DAG agree on the result for all types.
Red means the DAG was returning undef when IR was not.
Yellow means the DAG was returning a non-undef result when IR returned undef.

This patch assumes that we're currently doing the right thing in IR.

Note: I couldn't find any problems with lowering vector constants as the code comments were warning, 
but those comments were written long ago in rL36413 .

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D43141

llvm-svn: 324941