[clang][cli] Turn arcmt-* options into a single option

- The new option, -arcmt-action, is a simple enum based option.
- The driver is modified to translate the existing -ccc-acmt-* options accordingly
Depends on D83298

Reviewed By: Bigcheese

Original patch by Daniel Grumberg.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D83315