[lld-macho][test] Add -lSystem to all lld invocations

This is a requirement from ld64, so this mirrors that expectation. Most
of these changes were just offsets from adding the library, or adding
dyld_stub_binder which is always added when linking ld64. This also adds
`%no-lsystem-lld` for the few cases where we're explicitly testing
things without that.

Fixes: https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/54184

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D135193