[Sema] Fold VLAs to constant arrays in a few more contexts

552c6c23 removed support for promoting VLAs to constant arrays when the bounds
isn't an ICE, since this can result in miscompiling a conforming program that
assumes that the array is a VLA. Promoting VLAs for fields is still supported,
since clang doesn't support VLAs in fields, so no conforming program could have
a field VLA.

This change is really disruptive, so this commit carves out two more cases
where we promote VLAs which can't miscompile a conforming program:

 - When the VLA appears in an ivar -- this seems like a corollary to the field thing
 - When the VLA has an initializer -- VLAs can't have an initializer

Differential revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D90871