[VPlan] Manage pairs of incoming (VPValue, VPBB) in VPWidenPHIRecipe.

This patch extends VPWidenPHIRecipe to manage pairs of incoming
(VPValue, VPBasicBlock) in the VPlan native path. This is made possible
because we now directly manage defined VPValues for recipes.

By keeping both the incoming value and block in the recipe directly,
code-generation in the VPlan native path becomes independent of the
predecessor ordering when fixing up non-induction phis, which currently
can cause crashes in the VPlan native path.

This fixes PR45958.

Reviewed By: sguggill

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D96773