[Passes][VectorCombine] enable early run generally and try load folds

An early run of VectorCombine was added with D102496 specifically to
deal with unnecessary vector ops produced with the C matrix extension.
This patch is proposing to try those folds in general and add a pair
of load folds to the menu.

The load transform will partly solve (see PhaseOrdering diffs) a
longstanding vectorization perf bug by removing redundant loads via GVN:
issue #17113

The main reason for not enabling the extra pass generally in the initial
patch was compile-time cost. The cost of VectorCombine was significantly
(surprisingly) improved with:
87debdad
https://llvm-compile-time-tracker.com/compare.php?from=ffe05b8f57d97bc4340f791cb386c8d00e0739f2&to=87debdadaf18f8a5c7e5d563889e10731dc3554d&stat=instructions:u

...so the extra run is going to cost very little now - the total cost of
the 2 runs should be less than the 1 run before that micro-optimization:
https://llvm-compile-time-tracker.com/compare.php?from=5e8c2026d10e8e2c93c038c776853bed0e7c8fc1&to=2c4b68eab5ae969811f422714e0eba44c5f7eefb&stat=instructions:u

It may be possible to reduce the cost slightly more with a few more
earlier-exits like that, but it's probably in the noise based on timing
experiments.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D138353