[ASan] Rename `-fsanitize-address-destructor-kind=` to drop the `-kind` suffix.

Renaming the option is based on discussions in https://reviews.llvm.org/D101122.

It is normally not a good idea to rename driver flags but this flag is
new enough and obscure enough that it is very unlikely to have adopters.

While we're here also drop the `<kind>` metavar. It's not necessary and
is actually inconsistent with the documentation in
`clang/docs/ClangCommandLineReference.rst`.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D101491