[IR] document and update ctlz/cttz intrinsics to optionally return poison rather than undef

The behavior in Analysis (knownbits) implements poison semantics already,
and we expect the transforms (for example, in instcombine) derived from
those semantics, so this patch changes the LangRef and remaining code to
be consistent. This is one more step in removing "undef" from LLVM.

Without this, I think https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/53330
has a legitimate complaint because that report wants to allow subsequent
code to mask off bits, and that is allowed with undef values. The clang
builtins are not actually documented anywhere AFAICT, but we might want
to add that to remove more uncertainty.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D117912