[clang] Implement the using_if_exists attribute

This attribute applies to a using declaration, and permits importing a
declaration without knowing if that declaration exists. This is useful
for libc++ C wrapper headers that re-export declarations in std::, in
cases where the base C library doesn't provide all declarations.

This attribute was proposed in http://lists.llvm.org/pipermail/cfe-dev/2020-June/066038.html.

rdar://69313357

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D90188