[libcxx] Fix allocator<void>::pointer in C++20 with removed members

When compiled with `-D_LIBCPP_ENABLE_CXX20_REMOVED_ALLOCATOR_MEMBERS`
uses of `allocator<void>::pointer` resulted in compiler errors after D104323.
If we instantiate the primary template, `allocator<void>::reference` produces
an error 'cannot form references to void'.

To workaround this, allow to bring back the `allocator<void>` specialization by defining the new `_LIBCPP_ENABLE_CXX20_REMOVED_ALLOCATOR_VOID_SPECIALIZATION` macro.

To make sure the code that uses `allocator<void>` and the removed members does not break,
both `_LIBCPP_ENABLE_CXX20_REMOVED_ALLOCATOR_MEMBERS` and `_LIBCPP_ENABLE_CXX20_REMOVED_ALLOCATOR_MEMBERS` have to be defined.

Reviewed By: ldionne, #libc, philnik

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D126210