[Loads] Use more powerful constant folding API

This follows up on D111023 by exporting the generic "load value
from constant at given offset as given type" and using it in the
store to load forwarding code. We now need to make sure that the
load size is smaller than the store size, previously this was
implicitly ensured by ConstantFoldLoadThroughBitcast().

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D112260