[Attributor] Merge the query set into AbstractAttribute

The old QuerriedAAs contained two vectors, one for required one for
optional dependences (=queries). We now use a single vector and encode
the kind directly in the pointer.

This reduces memory consumption and makes the connection between
abstract attributes and their dependences clearer.

No functional change is intended, changes in the test are due to
different order in the query map. Neither the order before nor now is in
any way special.

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Single run of the Attributor module and then CGSCC pass (oldPM)
for SPASS/clause.c (~10k LLVM-IR loc):

Before:
```
calls to allocation functions: 543734 (329735/s)
temporary memory allocations: 105895 (64217/s)
peak heap memory consumption: 19.19MB
peak RSS (including heaptrack overhead): 102.26MB
total memory leaked: 269.10KB
```

After:
```
calls to allocation functions: 513292 (341511/s)
temporary memory allocations: 106028 (70544/s)
peak heap memory consumption: 13.35MB
peak RSS (including heaptrack overhead): 95.64MB
total memory leaked: 269.10KB
```

Difference:
```
calls to allocation functions: -30442 (208506/s)
temporary memory allocations: 133 (-910/s)
peak heap memory consumption: -5.84MB
peak RSS (including heaptrack overhead): 0B
total memory leaked: 0B
```

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Reviewed By: uenoku

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D78729