[Remarks][1/2] Expand remarks hotness threshold option support in more tools

This is the #1 of 2 changes that make remarks hotness threshold option
available in more tools. The changes also allow the threshold to sync with
hotness threshold from profile summary with special value 'auto'.

This change modifies the interface of lto::setupLLVMOptimizationRemarks() to
accept remarks hotness threshold. Update all the tools that use it with remarks
hotness threshold options:

* lld: '--opt-remarks-hotness-threshold='
* llvm-lto2: '--pass-remarks-hotness-threshold='
* llvm-lto: '--lto-pass-remarks-hotness-threshold='
* gold plugin: '-plugin-opt=opt-remarks-hotness-threshold='

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D85809