[ThinLTO] Loosen up variable importing correctness checks

After importing variables, we do some checking to ensure that variables
marked read or write only, which have been marked exported (e.g.
because a referencing function has been exported), are on at least one
module's imports list. This is because the read or write only variables
will be internalized, so we need a copy any any module that references
it.

This checking is overly conservative in the case of linkonce_odr or
other linkage types where there can already be a duplicate copy in
existence in the importing module, which therefore wouldn't need to
import it. Loosen up the checking for these linkage types.

Fixes https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/62468.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D149630