[InstCombine] Fix SimplifyLibCalls erasing an instruction while IC still had references to it.

InstCombine keeps a worklist and assumes that optimizations don't
eraseFromParent() the instruction, which SimplifyLibCalls violates. This change
adds a new callback to SimplifyLibCalls to let clients specify their own hander
for erasing actions.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D52729

llvm-svn: 344251