Fix configuring and building libc++ w/o an ABI library.

Typically libc++ uses libc++abi or libcxxrt to provide the ABI and runtime bits
of the C++ STL. However we also support building w/o an ABI library entirely.
This patch fixes building libc++ w/o an ABI library (and incorporates the
`~type_info()` fix in D28211).

The main changes in this patch are:

1) Add `-DLIBCXX_CXX_ABI=default` instead of using the empty string to mean "default".
2) Fix CMake bits which treated "none" as "default" on OS X.
3) Teach the source files to respect `-D_LIBCPP_BUILDING_HAS_NO_ABI_LIBRARY`.
4) Define ~type_info() when _LIBCPP_BUILDING_HAS_NO_ABI_LIBRARY is defined.

Unfortunately this patch doesn't help clean up the macro mess that we use to
configure for different ABI libraries.

llvm-svn: 290839