[GlobalISel] Restrict G_MERGE_VALUES capability and replace with new opcodes.

This patch restricts the capability of G_MERGE_VALUES, and uses the new
G_BUILD_VECTOR and G_CONCAT_VECTORS opcodes instead in the appropriate places.

This patch also includes AArch64 support for selecting G_BUILD_VECTOR of <4 x s32>
and <2 x s64> vectors.

Differential Revisions: https://reviews.llvm.org/D53629

llvm-svn: 348788