[DAGCombine][X86][AArch64][AMDGPU] (x - y) + -1 -> add (xor y, -1), x fold. Try 3

Summary:
This prevents regressions in next patch,
and somewhat recovers from the regression to AMDGPU test in D62223.

It is indeed not great that we leave vector decrement,
don't transform it into vector add all-ones..

https://rise4fun.com/Alive/ZRl

This is a recommit, originally committed in rL361852, but reverted
to investigate test-suite compile-time hangs, and then reverted in
rL362109 to fix missing constant folds that were causing
endless combine loops.

Reviewers: RKSimon, craig.topper, spatel, arsenm

Reviewed By: RKSimon, arsenm

Subscribers: kzhuravl, jvesely, wdng, nhaehnle, yaxunl, javed.absar, dstuttard, tpr, t-tye, kristof.beyls, llvm-commits

Tags: #llvm

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D62263

llvm-svn: 362144