[clang] Add option to clear AST memory before running LLVM passes

This is to save memory for Clang compiles.
Measuring building PassBuilder.cpp under /usr/bin/time, max rss goes from 0.93GB to 0.7GB.

This does not turn it by default yet.

I've turned on the option locally and run it over a good amount of files without any issues.

For more background, see
https://lists.llvm.org/pipermail/cfe-dev/2021-September/068930.html.

Reviewed By: dblaikie

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D111105