[VectorUtils] Rework the Vector Function Database (VFDatabase).

Summary:
This commits is a rework of the patch in
https://reviews.llvm.org/D67572.

The rework was requested to prevent out-of-tree performance regression
when vectorizing out-of-tree IR intrinsics. The vectorization of such
intrinsics is enquired via the static function `isTLIScalarize`. For
detail see the discussion in https://reviews.llvm.org/D67572.

Reviewers: uabelho, fhahn, sdesmalen

Subscribers: hiraditya, llvm-commits

Tags: #llvm

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D72734