[SelectionDAG] Teach SelectionDAG::FoldConstantArithmetic to handle SPLAT_VECTOR

This allows FoldConstantArithmetic to handle SPLAT_VECTOR in
addition to BUILD_VECTOR. This allows it to support scalable
vectors. I'm also allowing fixed length SPLAT_VECTOR which is
used by some targets, but I'm not familiar enough to write tests
for those targets.

I had to block this function from running on CONCAT_VECTORS to
avoid calling getNode for a CONCAT_VECTORS of 2 scalars.
This can happen because the 2 operand getNode calls this
function for any opcode. Previously we were protected because
CONCAT_VECTORs of BUILD_VECTOR is folded to a larger BUILD_VECTOR
before that call. But it's not always possible to fold a CONCAT_VECTORS
of SPLAT_VECTORs, and we don't even try.

This fixes PR49781 where DAG combine thought constant folding
should be possible, but FoldConstantArithmetic couldn't do it.

Reviewed By: david-arm

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D99682