[CodeGen] Apply 'nonnull' and 'dereferenceable(N)' to 'this' pointer

arguments.

* Adds 'nonnull' and 'dereferenceable(N)' to 'this' pointer arguments
* Gates 'nonnull' on -f(no-)delete-null-pointer-checks
* Introduces this-nonnull.cpp and microsoft-abi-this-nullable.cpp tests to
  explicitly test the behavior of this change
* Refactors hundreds of over-constrained clang tests to permit these
  attributes, where needed
* Updates Clang12 patch notes mentioning this change

Reviewed-by: rsmith, jdoerfert

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D17993