Reapply "Try enabling -Wsuggest-override again, using add_compile_options...

Reapply "Try enabling -Wsuggest-override again, using add_compile_options instead of add_compile_definitions for disabling it in unittests/ directories."

add_compile_options is more sensitive to its location in the file than add_definitions--it only takes effect for sources that are added after it. This updated patch ensures that the add_compile_options is done before adding any source files that depend on it.

Using add_definitions caused the flag to be passed to rc.exe on Windows and thus broke Windows builds.