[x86] use vector instructions to lower even more FP->int->FP casts

This is another enhancement to D77895/D78362
to avoid a round-trip from XMM->GPR->XMM.
This time we handle the case of starting/ending with different FP types
but always with signed i32 as the intermediate value.
I think this covers all of the faux vector optimization possibilities
for pre-AVX512.

There is at least 1 other transform mentioned in PR36617:
https://bugs.llvm.org/show_bug.cgi?id=36617#c19
...where we fold an 'fpext' into a preceding 'sitofp'. I think we will
want to handle that earlier (DAGCombiner or instcombine) because that's
a target-independent optimization.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D78758