[DebugInfo][InstrRef] Avoid un-necessary densemap copies and comparisons

This is purely a performance patch: InstrRefBasedLDV used to use three
DenseMaps to store variable values, two for long term storage and one as a
working set. This patch eliminates the working set, and updates the long
term storage in place, thus avoiding two DenseMap comparisons and two
DenseMap assignments, which can be expensive.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D111716