[mlir] Fix some edge cases around 0-element TensorFromElementsOp

This introduces a builder for the more general case that supports zero
elements (where the element type can't be inferred from the ValueRange,
since it might be empty).

Also, fix up some cases in ShapeToStandard lowering that hit this. It
happens very easily when dealing with shapes of 0-D tensors.

The SameOperandsAndResultElementType is redundant with the new
TypesMatchWith and prevented having zero elements.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D87492