Make getParamAlignment use argument numbers

The method is called "get *Param* Alignment", and is only used for
return values exactly once, so it should take argument indices, not
attribute indices.

Avoids confusing code like:
  IsSwiftError = CS->paramHasAttr(ArgIdx, Attribute::SwiftError);
  Alignment  = CS->getParamAlignment(ArgIdx + 1);

Add getRetAlignment to handle the one case in Value.cpp that wants the
return value alignment.

This is a potentially breaking change for out-of-tree backends that do
their own call lowering.

llvm-svn: 301682