uselistorder: Remove the global bits

Remove all the global bits to do with preserving use-list order by
moving the `cl::opt`s to the individual tools that want them.  There's a
minor functionality change to `libLTO`, in that you can't send in
`-preserve-bc-uselistorder=false`, but making that bit settable (if it's
worth doing) should be through explicit LTO API.

As a drive-by fix, I removed some includes of `UseListOrder.h` that were
made unnecessary by recent commits.

llvm-svn: 234973