[ARM,MVE] Add intrinsics for the VQDMLAH family.

Summary:
These are complicated integer multiply+add instructions with extra
saturation, taking the high half of a double-width product, and
optional rounding. There's no sensible way to represent that in
standard IR, so I've converted the clang builtins directly to
target-specific intrinsics.

Reviewers: dmgreen, MarkMurrayARM, miyuki, ostannard

Reviewed By: miyuki

Subscribers: kristof.beyls, hiraditya, cfe-commits

Tags: #clang

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D76123