Thread safety analysis: Warn when demoting locks on back edges

Previously in D104261 we warned about dropping locks from back edges,
this is the corresponding change for exclusive/shared joins. If we're
entering the loop with an exclusive change, which is then relaxed to a
shared lock before we loop back, we have already analyzed the loop body
with the stronger exclusive lock and thus might have false positives.

There is a minor non-observable change: we modify the exit lock set of a
function, but since that isn't used further it doesn't change anything.

Reviewed By: aaron.ballman

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D106713