[lldb/DWARF] Don't hold a unique SymbolFileDWARFDwo in a DWARFUnit

This is the second dwp preparatory patch. When a SymbolFileDWARFDwo will
hold more than one split unit, it will not be able to be uniquely owned
by a single DWARFUnit. I achieve this by changing the
unique_ptr<SymbolFileDWARFDwo> member of DWARFUnit to
shared_ptr<DWARFUnit>. The shared_ptr points to a DWARFUnit, but it is
in fact holding the entire SymbolFileDWARFDwo alive. This is the same
method used by llvm DWARFUnit (except that is uses the DWARFContext
class).

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D73782