[InstCombine] generalize safe vector constant utility

This is almost NFC, but there could be some case where the original
code had undefs in the constants (rather than just the shuffle mask),
and we'll use safe constants rather than undefs now.

The FIXME noted in foldShuffledBinop() is already visible in existing
tests, so correcting that is the next step.

llvm-svn: 336558