[OpenMP] Improve search for libomptarget-nvptx

When looking for the bclib Clang considered the default library
path first while it preferred directories in LIBRARY_PATH when
constructing the invocation of nvlink. The latter actually makes
more sense because during development it allows using a non-default
runtime library. So change the search for the bclib to start
looking in directories given by LIBRARY_PATH.
Additionally add a new option --libomptarget-nvptx-path= which
will be searched first. This will be handy for testing purposes.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D51686

llvm-svn: 343230