[cmake] Centralize LLVM_ENABLE_WARNINGS option

Configure default value of `LLVM_ENABLE_WARNINGS` in `HandleLLVMOptions.cmake`.

`LLVM_ENABLE_WARNINGS` is documented as ON by default, but `HandleLLVMOptions` assumes the default has been set somewhere else. If it has not been explicitly set, then `HandleLLVMOptions` implicitly uses OFF as a default.

This removes the various `option()` declarations in favor of a single declaration in `HandleLLVMOptions`. This will prevent the unwanted use of `-w` that is mentioned in a couple of the comments.

Reviewed By: DavidTruby, #libunwind, JDevlieghere, compnerd

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D87243