[ODS] Generate builders taking unwrapped value and defaults for attributes

Existing builders generated by ODS require attributes to be passed
in as mlir::Attribute or its subclasses. This is okay foraggregate-
parameter builders, which is primarily to be used by programmatic
C++ code generation; it is inconvenient for separate-parameter
builders meant to be called in manually written C++ code because
it requires developers to wrap raw values into mlir::Attribute by
themselves.

This CL extends to generate additional builder methods that
take raw values for attributes and handles the wrapping in the
builder implementation. Additionally, if an attribute appears
late in the arguments list and has a default value, the default
value is supplied in the declaration if possible.

PiperOrigin-RevId: 283355919