[CallPromotion] Check for inalloca/byval mismatch

Previously we would allow promotion even if the byval/inalloca
attributes on the call and the callee didn't match.

It's ok if the byval/inalloca types aren't the same. For example, LTO
importing may rename types.

Fixes PR51397.

Reviewed By: rnk

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D107998