Teach llvm-jitlink to support archives in inputs files and -load_hidden

Similar to the ld64 command-line options. These use the same underlying
mechanisms as -l and -hidden-l, but allow specifying an absolute path to
the archive. This is often more convenient for a one-off, or when adding
a new search path could change how existing -l options are resolved.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D117360