SourceManager: getFileEntryRefForID => getNonBuiltinFilenameForID, NFC

`SourceManager::getFileEntryRefForID`'s remaining callers just want the
filename component, which is coming from the `FileInfo`. Replace the API
with `getNonBuiltinFilenameForID`, which also removes another use of
`FileEntryRef::FileEntryRef` outside of `FileManager`.

Both callers are collecting file dependencies, and one of them relied on
this API to filter out built-ins (as exposed by
clang/test/ClangScanDeps/modules-full.cpp). It seems nice to continue
providing that service.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D89508