[clangd] Debounce streams of updates.

Summary:
Don't actually start building ASTs for new revisions until either:
- 500ms have passed since the last revision, or
- we actually need the revision for something (or to unblock the queue)

In practice, this avoids the "first keystroke results in diagnostics" problem.
This is kind of awkward to test, and the test is pretty bad.
It can be observed nicely by capturing a trace, though.

Reviewers: hokein, ilya-biryukov

Subscribers: klimek, jkorous-apple, ioeric, cfe-commits

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D43648

llvm-svn: 326546