[mlir][Linalg] Drop usage of tileWithLinalgTilingOptions in the structured.tile transform

This is on a path to deprecation.
Context: https://discourse.llvm.org/t/psa-retire-tileandfuselinalgops-method/63850

As the interface-based transformation is more generic, some additional folding of AffineMin/MaxOp and some extra canonicalizations are needed.
This can be further evolved.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D137195