[lldb] Change ObjectValueDictionary to use a StringMap

llvm has a structure for maps where the key's type is a string. Using
that also means that the keys for OptionValueDictionary don't stick
around forever in ConstString's StringPool (even after they are gone).

The only thing we lose here is ordering: iterating over the map where the keys
are ConstStrings guarantees that we iterate in alphabetical order.
StringMap makes no guarantees about the ordering when you iterate over
the entire map.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D149482