[mlir] [vector] Add an optional filter to vector contract lowering patterns.

Summary: Vector contract patterns were only parameterized by a `vectorTransformsOptions`. As a result, even if an mlir file was containing several occurrences of `vector.contract`, all of them would be lowered in the same way. More granularity might be required . This Diff adds a `constraint` argument to each of these patterns which allows the user to specify with more precision on which `vector.contract` should each of the lowering apply.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D83960