[lld/mac] Search .tbd before binary for framework files too

This matters for example for the iPhoneSimulator14.0.sdk, which has
a System/Library/Frameworks/UIKit.framework/UIKit that has
LC_BUILD_VERSION with minos of 14.0, so linking against that file
will produce warnings like:

   .../iPhoneSimulator14.0.sdk/System/Library/Frameworks/UIKit.framework/UIKit
   has version 14.0.0, which is newer than target minimum of 12.0.0

when targeting x86_64-apple-ios12.0-simulator. That doens't happen when
linking against UIKit.tbd instead, obviously.

Linking with RC_TRACE_DYLIB_SEARCHING=1 shows that ld64 also searches
the tbd file first, and we already get that right for non-framework
dylibs.

Fixes crbug.com/1249456.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D109768