[AMDGPU] Fix crash in SILoadStoreOptimizer

SILoadStoreOptimizer::checkAndPrepareMerge() expects base and
paired instruction to come in order and scans MBB from base to
the paired instruction. An original order can be changed if
there were a dependent instruction in between and base instruction
was moved.

Fixed by bailing the optimization. In theory it might be possible
still to perform a merge by swapping instructions, but on practice
it bails anyway because it finds dependency on that same instruction
which has resulted in the base move.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D77245