ValueMapper: Rename RF_MoveDistinctMDs => RF_ReuseAndMutateDistinctMDs, NFC

Rename the `RF_MoveDistinctMDs` flag passed into `MapValue` and
`MapMetadata` to `RF_ReuseAndMutateDistinctMDs` in order to more
precisely describe its effect and clarify the header documentation.

Found this while helping to investigate PR48841, which pointed out an
unsound use of the flag in `CloneModule()`. For now I've just added a
FIXME there, but I'm hopeful that the new (more precise) name will
prevent other similar errors.