lld: improve the `-arch` handling for MachO

Use the default target triple configured by the user to determine the
default architecture for `ld64.lld`.  Stash the architecture in the
configuration as when linking against TBDs, we will need to filter out
the symbols based upon the architecture.  Treat the Haswell slice as it
is equivalent to `x86_64` but with the extra Haswell extensions (e.g.
AVX2, FMA3, BMI1, etc).  This will make it easier to add new
architectures in the future.

This change also changes the failure mode where an invalid `-arch`
parameter will result in the linker exiting without further processing.