Generalize ExtendUsesToFormExtLoad to be usable for ANY_EXTEND,

in addition to ZERO_EXTEND and SIGN_EXTEND. Fix a bug in the
way it checked for live-out values, and simplify the way it
find users by using SDNode::use_iterator's (relatively) new
features. Also, make it slightly more permissive on targets
with free truncates.

In SelectionDAGBuild, avoid creating ANY_EXTEND nodes that are
larger than necessary. If the target's SwitchAmountTy has
enough bits, use it. This exposes the truncate to optimization
early, enabling more optimizations.

llvm-svn: 68670