Emit DW_AT_object_pointer once, on the declaration, for each function.

This effectively reverts r164326, but adds some comments and
justification and ensures we /don't/ emit the DW_AT_object_pointer on
the (abstract and concrete) definitions. (while still preserving it on
standalone definitions involving ObjC Blocks)

This does increase the size of member function declarations from 7 to 11
bytes, unfortunately, but still seems like the Right Thing to do so that
callers that see only the declaration still have the information about
the object pointer. That said, I don't know what, if any, DWARF
consumers don't have a heuristic to guess this in the case of normal
C++ member functions - perhaps we can remove it entirely.

llvm-svn: 207705